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Yes Means Yes: The Gospel Call to Radical Truthfulness — Memorial of Saint Anthony of Padua — Matthew 5:33–37

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Published: June 13, 2026

There is a moment in today's first reading that deserves to linger. Elisha is plowing a field, twelve yoke of oxen ahead of him, the work of a prosperous farmer stretching out before him, when Elijah walks by and throws his cloak over him. The call is wordless, but Elisha understands it completely. He runs after Elijah and asks only to say goodbye to his parents. And then he does something remarkable. He takes the yoke of oxen, slaughters them, and uses the plowing equipment itself as fuel to cook the meat and feed his people. He burns the tools of his old life so thoroughly that there is nothing left to return to. Then he follows. His yes is total, unambiguous, and irreversible.

That image sets the tone for everything Jesus says in the Gospel today.

"Let your 'Yes' mean 'Yes,' and your 'No' mean 'No.' Anything more is from the Evil One." — Matthew 5:37

This teaching is part of the great antitheses of the Sermon on the Mount, the series of moments in which Jesus takes a received moral tradition and pushes it to its deepest root. The law said: do not swear falsely, and keep your oaths to the Lord. A reasonable standard. A functional social ethic. Swear by heaven, by earth, by Jerusalem, by your own head — and let that oath vouch for the truth of what you say. The problem Jesus is naming is subtle but devastating: the moment you establish a two-tiered system of speech — sworn statements that are reliable, and everyday words that may or may not be — you have already conceded that your ordinary word cannot be trusted. The oath system exists to compensate for that deficit.

Jesus is not interested in reforming the oath system. He is interested in eliminating the need for it. His vision is not of a community that swears better or more carefully; it is of people whose yes always means yes and whose no always means no, in conversation with family, in commerce with strangers, in private moments when no one is watching. The question behind this teaching is not "when should you swear?" but "what kind of person are you becoming?"

This is not a surface-level moral demand. It reaches down into the interior life, into the formation of character, into the daily thousand small choices about whether to be honest or whether to be comfortable. We live in a world where hedged language has become a survival skill. We have become adept at saying things that are technically true but functionally misleading, at making commitments with private mental reservations, at agreeing to things we know we will not do in order to avoid the friction of an honest no. We have learned to manage expectations rather than to speak plainly, and to soften our words so thoroughly that they no longer carry weight.

Jesus is not asking us to be blunt or unkind. Honesty and charity are not opposites. He is asking for something more demanding than either: he is asking for a life so thoroughly aligned with truth that the gap between what we say and what we mean simply does not exist. That kind of life is not achieved by resolution or willpower. It is grown, slowly, through prayer and sacrament and the patient practice of accountability — beginning in small things, in the keeping of minor promises, in the admission of small failures, in the willingness to say "I was wrong" without elaborate justification.

On this feast of Saint Anthony of Padua, the Church gives us a patron who embodied exactly this kind of integrated truthfulness. Anthony was called, by Pope Gregory IX who heard him preach, the living treasury of Holy Scripture. When Anthony of Padua opened his mouth, people believed him — not because he was clever or charismatic in the modern sense, but because his words came from a life that matched them. He had burned his own plowing equipment, so to speak, when he left behind the security of the Augustinian order to follow the radical poverty of Francis of Assisi. His preaching was not performance. It was witness. And the difference between the two is precisely what Jesus is teaching in today's Gospel.

Pope Pius XII, when he named Anthony a Doctor of the Church and gave him the title "Evangelical Doctor," pointed to this same quality: Anthony grounded everything he said in the texts of the Gospels, and lived what he preached with such consistency that his words carried their own authority. He did not need to invoke heaven and earth to be believed. His yes was yes. The thousands who crowded into fields and piazzas to hear him preach were not responding to rhetoric. They were responding to a man whose speech and life were one thing.

The invitation today is to examine the gap in our own lives between word and reality. Where do I make promises I do not intend to keep? Where do I say yes when I mean no, because no feels too uncomfortable? Where do I use language to manage other people's impressions of me rather than to communicate honestly with them? These are not dramatic moral failures; they are the ordinary slippage that, over time, erodes the trustworthiness of a life. And they are the very territory that Jesus is asking us to reclaim.

The foundation for this kind of truthfulness is not moral resolve but a deepened relationship with God, who is himself the source of all truth. It is nourished in the Eucharist, where we receive the one who declared himself the Way, the Truth, and the Life. It is healed in confession, where we can name the specific moments of dishonesty and receive forgiveness. It is practiced in the daily return to prayer, where we learn to tell the truth at least to God, and that practice of interior honesty begins to shape the way we speak to everyone else.

Elisha burned the plow. Anthony left the cloister. Both of them said yes in a way that left nothing behind. Jesus is asking us today for that same kind of yes — not necessarily a dramatic gesture, but a life in which yes means yes, no means no, and the people around us have learned that they can trust our word as completely as they trust our presence.

Scripture readings for today: 1 Kings 19:19–21 | Psalm 16 | Matthew 5:33–37