Who Is My Neighbor? The Radical Love of the Good Samaritan

Published July 13, 2025

"But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, 'And who is my neighbor?'" - Luke 10:29

It's one of the most famous stories ever told, yet every time we encounter the Parable of the Good Samaritan, it has the power to stop us in our tracks. This isn't just a nice story about helping others—it's a radical redefinition of love, community, and what it means to follow God.

The Setup: A Question with Hidden Motives

The story begins with what seems like a sincere spiritual inquiry. An expert in religious law approaches Jesus with the ultimate question: "What must I do to inherit eternal life?"

But Luke gives us a crucial detail—this man was testing Jesus. He wasn't seeking truth; he was trying to trap the teacher who was challenging everything the religious establishment held dear.

Jesus, as he often does, turns the question back: "What is written in the Law? How do you read it?"

The lawyer's response is textbook perfect: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and love your neighbor as yourself."

"Correct," Jesus says. "Do this and you will live."

The Follow-Up That Changes Everything

Here's where the story takes its crucial turn. The lawyer, wanting to justify himself, asks the question that exposes his heart: "And who is my neighbor?"

This wasn't innocent curiosity. In first-century Jewish culture, "neighbor" had very specific boundaries. It typically meant fellow Jews, particularly those who were religiously observant. The lawyer was essentially asking, "How narrow can I make this commandment? Who can I exclude from my circle of obligation?"

The Story That Shattered Expectations

Instead of giving a direct answer, Jesus tells a story—and what a story it is.

The Journey from Jerusalem to Jericho

"A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead."

This wasn't just storytelling flavor—every detail mattered to Jesus' audience. The road from Jerusalem to Jericho was notoriously dangerous, a winding 17-mile descent through desert wilderness known for bandit attacks. Any traveler would understand the vulnerability this man faced.

More importantly, we're not told the victim's ethnicity, social status, or religious affiliation. He's simply "a man"—stripped of all the categories we use to decide who deserves our help.

The Expected Heroes Who Failed

"A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side."

This is where Jesus' audience would have gasped. In their world, priests and Levites were the epitome of religious devotion, the very people you'd expect to embody love of neighbor.

Why didn't they help?

There were likely multiple factors: - Ritual purity concerns: Touching blood or a corpse would make them ceremonially unclean - Personal safety: What if the robbers were still nearby? - Practical considerations: They had religious duties to fulfill - Social expectations: Their status might have made them cautious about getting involved

But Jesus doesn't give them these excuses. He simply states the devastating truth: they saw and passed by.

The Shocking Hero

"But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him."

To understand the explosive nature of this twist, we need to grasp how Jews and Samaritans viewed each other. This wasn't just ethnic tension—it was centuries of religious and cultural hatred. Samaritans were considered heretics, half-breeds, enemies of true faith.

For Jesus to make a Samaritan the hero of this story was like a pastor today making an ISIS member the good guy in a Sunday sermon. It was scandalous, offensive, and completely unexpected.

But look at what this Samaritan does:

"He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. 'Look after him,' he said, 'and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.'"

This isn't just help—it's extravagant, costly, sacrificial love: - Immediate care: Oil and wine were expensive medical supplies - Personal sacrifice: He gave up his own transportation - Ongoing commitment: Two denarii was roughly two days' wages - Open-ended generosity: "Whatever extra you spend, I'll pay"

The Question That Reverses Everything

After telling this story, Jesus asks the lawyer: "Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?"

Notice how Jesus completely flips the original question. The lawyer asked, "Who is my neighbor?" (Who do I have to help?) Jesus asks, "Who proved to be a neighbor?" (How can I become the kind of person who helps?)

The lawyer can't even bring himself to say "the Samaritan." He responds, "The one who had mercy on him."

And Jesus delivers the punch line: "Go and do likewise."

What This Story Teaches Us Today

1. Love Transcends All Boundaries

The Good Samaritan shatters every excuse we make for limiting our compassion. Race, religion, politics, social class, past conflicts—none of these are valid reasons to withhold help from someone in need.

In our polarized world, this is revolutionary. How often do we let political differences, racial prejudices, or religious disagreements prevent us from seeing others as worthy of our care?

2. Religious Activity Doesn't Equal Loving Action

The priest and Levite knew the law perfectly. They could quote Scripture, perform rituals, and maintain religious observance. But they failed the fundamental test of faith: loving their neighbor in practical, costly ways.

This challenges all of us who consider ourselves religious. Are we more concerned with maintaining our spiritual comfort zones than with messy, inconvenient acts of love?

3. True Neighborliness is a Choice, Not a Category

Jesus reframes the entire conversation. Instead of asking "Who qualifies as my neighbor?" we should ask "How can I be a neighbor to whoever needs help?"

This shifts everything. Instead of looking for reasons to exclude, we look for opportunities to include. Instead of minimal obligation, we embrace maximal love.

4. Love Requires Sacrifice

The Samaritan didn't just feel bad for the injured man—he acted, and it cost him time, money, convenience, and safety. Real love always has a price tag.

Compassion without action is just sentiment. True love disrupts our plans, drains our resources, and demands our presence.

The Personal Challenge

As we encounter this story today, Jesus asks each of us the same question he asked the lawyer: "Go and do likewise."

Who is lying on your road to Jericho? - The homeless person you pass on your commute? - The coworker everyone else avoids? - The neighbor struggling with addiction? - The refugee family in your community? - The person whose political views you despise?

What excuses do you make for passing by? - "I don't have time" - "Someone else will help" - "They probably brought it on themselves" - "I need to take care of my own first" - "It's not safe" - "They're not my kind of people"

How is God calling you to "go and do likewise"?

The Deeper Truth

Ultimately, the Parable of the Good Samaritan isn't just about being nice to people. It's about a fundamental reorientation of how we see the world.

We're all travelers on a dangerous road. We're all vulnerable to the robbers of circumstance, tragedy, and human cruelty. And when we're lying beaten and broken, what we need isn't someone to analyze whether we deserve help—we need someone to stop, kneel down, and pour oil and wine on our wounds.

The beautiful truth is that Jesus himself is the ultimate Good Samaritan. While we were lying spiritually dead on the roadside of sin, he didn't pass by. He stopped, he sacrificed everything to heal us, and he continues to pay the price for our restoration.

Because we have been loved this way, we can love this way.

Living the Story

The lawyer came to Jesus asking for the minimum requirement for eternal life. Jesus showed him—and us—that there is no minimum when it comes to love. There's only the expansive, boundary-breaking, excuse-destroying call to see every person as our neighbor and to love them as we love ourselves.

The road to Jericho is everywhere. The robbers are real. And somewhere, someone is waiting for you to stop, kneel down, and prove that love is stronger than indifference, that mercy triumphs over judgment, and that true religion means getting your hands dirty in the beautiful, messy work of healing a broken world.

Who is your neighbor? Everyone.

What must you do? Go and do likewise.

The next time you encounter someone in need—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—remember the Samaritan. Remember that love recognizes no boundaries, excuses no indifference, and calls us all to be neighbors to whoever God places in our path.